"Anyone can be Heroic from time to time,but a Gentleman is something you have to be all the time." 

Nobody feels like to see inside themselves.. their lifestyle... their behavior... their thoughts... even their responsibilities towards their country... their society... even their own family who is a part of our society and society is a part of our country... As you can see friends how beautifully this all are connected to each other which is starting from "you"... who could play the significant role to work around ... which really showing that how much you are important for your family... for your society and of course for your country... which really shows the importance of one step...i.e, "Your Step" or "A Man's Step"..

 
"Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters can not be trusted with important matters."

well I'm not here to discuss about the problems which we
are creating around. I'm just here to discuss about our dignity, our attitude, our self respect which we are easily loosing from ourselves and indirectly we are ignoring our identity of being a Man. A man is a statue of his rule, role and responsibility..

 "Maturity is the ability to think, speak and act your feelings within the bounds of dignity"

when we heard a word "MAN". It automatically brings the feeling of POWER, SAVIOR, STRENGTH, WARRIOR etc

But now is it brings the feelings so???

If not then who is the responsible for it??

Is that you??

The bitter truth is nobody can handle others but thank God!!! the beautiful truth is that we can handle atleast ourself...

It's not about right or wrong friends. we know ourself that how much and what kind of step we should take to maintain our manity. i.e, our identity...

 
"weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character"


This step may not enough to work around but I'm saying, this is enough for me and should enough for everyone to work around If we all start taking step towards maintaining our identity of being man by silently blaming ourselves only. As our one step is connected to our environment.. our home.. our society.. and then with our country.
 
"Strength does not come from physical capacity, It comes from an indomitable will"

As the word "Man" brings the feeling like Power... Savior... Warrior... it's just used for maintaining the role of our Manity with responsibility around. it's not for harming the morality...
 
"What makes superman a hero is not that he has POWER but that he has the wisdom and the maturity to use the POWER wisely"

 
"Courage, above all things, is the first quality of a WARRIOR."

 
"A noblest pleasure is the joy of understanding"

we try to become a good hider but that's our false pretense.. we can hide ourselves from the world but not from her. i.e, our mother.. wife.. sister.. etc. they know about us that how much we are honest in our path of Manity.. she may not reveal your true identity infront of you or world because she may respects your identity in the bound of love. Honesty is the root of Manity.. so live pure Manity without loosing your identity and dignity just for your home to make them proud for being a part of you... i.e, with a Real Man.

Lord made us to "lighten the darkness" not for violence.

 
 "The strength of a Nation derives from the integrity of the home"

But bitter truth is that day by day by ignoring our role and responsibility we are loosing our identity of being a Man and conditions came at the verge of extinction... yess!!! i.e,

                           "EXTINCTION OF A MAN"

Are we really at the verge of extinction like other species around??

 "Educated begins the Gentleman but reading, good company and reflection must finish him"

An act is a secret to get things done as the court of conscience which replaces all the court of justice. Our prime purpose is to help others. If we can't help them atleast don't hurt them.
 
"A Gentleman is one who never hurts anyone's feelings unintentional"


sometimes we easily shout.. 
we are proud of our country!!!

we can change the country!!!

hmmm we should...

we can..

we are..

but the question is that...

Are we doing so ??

If we can't change a little things i.e, our thoughts atleast towards our own identity. then how we  could change our country.

 
"A Gentleman would be ashamed should his deeds not match his words"

  

 "The inspiration of the Bible depends upon the ignorance of the Gentleman who reads it"

 
"The mind is everything what you think you become"

Here I'm not talking about the good man or bad man. Man is only the man if he's playing the role of being a man with his appropriate responsibility. A man can't say himself a driver unless he know

driving then how could we say ourselves a man without playing a role of it.

 
 "A Gentleman is one who puts more into the world than he takes out."

All great personalities known for their work not for their gender. MAN is also a reputed position.

 
"It is not titles that make Men illustrious, but Men who make titles illustrious"

we have not right to say ourselves a man unless we play a honest role of it. So before saving anything all around. we should save ourselves first. Which is enough to save anything else. it's the main part of environment...

make your environment beautiful...

for yourself..

for your family..

for your society and

for your country...

 "We only live once, but once is enough if we do it right. live your life with class, dignity and style so that an exclamation, rather than a question mark signifies it!"

As we know that Man is not built for an easy task. The best measures of Manity can be measured during the unpleasant condition instead of blaming the condition.

I pray to be a good in all the possible relationships like a good son... friend... husband... father and a complete man...

 
"Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It's daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart"

"If you can't support it then don't promote it"

If you can't support in maintaining a Manity then don't promote to destroy a Manity. there is no safety in being the same person that you were yesterday. you must leave a trail of manity behind you before leaving this world.

  
"While I thought that I was learning how to live. I have been learning how to die"


"Aadmi Beemari k dar se khaana to chhor deta hai, Magar Khuda k dar se gunaah nahi."

RAJ KIRAN GUPTA.
(The above all quotes belongs to the great people but I haven't mention their names to awaken us to understand the priority of Manity because there's a need of  self motivation only by which we could save our identity.)